Testimonials
When I first started therapy, I was hesitant about what to expect, and whether I would feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable. However, my sessions with Eileena have felt like a safe space since Day One – she has been extremely patient, encouraging, and non-judgemental.
As a queer person, I also always feel comfortable to share about issues related to my sexuality with Eileena.
Healing is not always linear, and whenever I feel horrible about “falling back” on my journey, Eileena always reminds me to be kind to myself, which is something I appreciate. She also recommends useful books to read, in order for me to be able to better reflect on my healing and purpose.
Beyond focusing on how to let go of past behaviours that may no longer be helpful for me, Eileena also encourages me to think beyond my past and to have hope for my future.
Overall, I have found myself becoming more hopeful, and less burdened by my past worries (changes which my friends have also observed in me) since the beginning of therapy. I have been able to apply what I have learnt during sessions in my daily life, friendships and work.
Thank you Eileena! 🙂
Rachel
四月，我擺脱压抑的心情，找回消失了好久打从心底发出的笑容。
去年中旬从美国回来，我被重重的迷茫包围。步入三十的孩子跨性别的决定带给我太多的失落。我向来相信冥冥中有个主宰，但心里又充斥许多的无奈。
至今最令我感恩的是，有缘认识Eileena。在Eileena面前，我大多时间都在倾诉事情的发生过程，人际间的矛盾互动关系。我看似平静，但在她面前却流了不少的泪。我想我需要的是一位中立的聆听者，让我从倾吐中自我解脱，整理思路並自我疗愈。
Eileena 话不多，她动容的听和理解，不带任何偏见和批判；适当的时候，她就抛出一些问题引导我回味思考。对我而言，Eileena 像一座桥樑，衔接我和孩子的世界；她同时像一个灯塔，指引我探索自己，迈向面对接受解决放下最终释怀的路….
六十六岁的母亲
I started therapy with Eileena in the beginning of 2023, she has been nothing but helpful throughout my journey to identify the cause of my trauma and triggers.
On days when I am overwhelmed by life and simply do not know how to begin, she would always speak to me gently and guide me to talk about my feelings and thoughts. Eileena is considerate and passionate, and would always listen attentively as I vent about my issues. Providing a different perspective, and give me space to let my thoughts run free, she never rushes me to a ‘decision’ and always lets me come to my own conclusion.
I have benefited immensely from therapy, and am grateful for what Eileena has done to help me see myself. As life has progressed on, I am confident to say that I have learned to set boundaries, hold people responsible for it, and essentially learn to love myself more.
Most importantly, I am happier.
WenJun Tan
I was introduced to Eileena by my sister-in-law after I lost my husband unexpectedly a few months ago.
Eileena has been attentive, sensitive, compassionate in her approach as she helped me navigate my feelings through the trauma. She is an attentive listener with an immense capacity for empathy who demonstrates no judgement, only a keen desire to understand which in turn created a safe space for me to not only grief but also for me to openly talk about my feelings.
I am still on the journey with Eileena and over the course of the last few months, she has helped me to identify and manage panic attacks, develop boundaries, mentally and emotionally cope with the trauma, my loss and deal with insensitive comments from family and friends.
I appreciate that Eileena never tells me what to do or how to think and how I should feel. Instead, she provides me with tools to understand my feelings and my thoughts, which enables me to ascertain which direction I should take on my own. I am immensely grateful to her for her support and reassurance. Eileena has been the main reason that I have been able to function and keep my sanity.
I have benefitted and continue to benefit from Eileena’s compassion, genuineness and expertise in trauma and bereavement.
Yvonne
As a fellow counselor, Eileena embodies the essence of inclusivity and compassion in her practice, creating a safe haven where individuals of all sexual orientations and personal beliefs can feel truly seen and heard.
Her unwavering dedication to fostering an environment of acceptance and respect cultivates a sense of trust and openness that is invaluable in the therapeutic process. Eileena’s commitment to promoting healing and growth is evident in the profound positive impact she has on those she serves.
Chern Hui Ying
Eileena is experienced and flexible with her approach to counselling. She helps me debunk pop psychology with actual & useful psychology.
She is a keen listener even when I would spend the entire session venting and retelling my life story. She slows me down when I am desperate to speedrun therapy. Hold space for me to process my feelings. And provides perspective to my situation. Allowing me to form my own conclusions and decide how best to process with healing.
When I first started seeing Eileena, I was dealing with overwhelming mental blocks that paralysed me in a negative feedback loop. She has helped me reevaluate the way I saw myself. It wasn’t healthy for me to force myself into a cis-het box. In order to prioritise and do what was best for myself, I learnt to accept the reality of my situation and seeing the joy of my unique experiences.
My most valuable take away from our sessions are – Self acceptance and being open to life. And that the way we think, shapes the lives we live.
Marcella, 29, Trans woman
Eileena is a trauma-informed and compassionate clinician who offers a safe and affirming space for her clients. She is experienced in working with LGBTQ+ clients, having serving this community for decades in various capacities. Eileena’s also brings deep insight into her work with clients navigating challenging parental and familial relationships.
Shila Naidu